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EASILY MEET AND ATTRACT THE WOMEN IN YOUR EVERYDAY LIFE Oh crap, the cute girl across the bar is smiling at you and you're first. It's that last question where most guys get stuck and end up with the cliche answer of “the bar.” The reality is very few relationships begin in bars. If you're hanging out in bars to meet people, that first shared experience is going to be oriented around the things that happens in bars.
Plant yourself wherever female traffic is highest and increase your probability of meeting women. If your goal is to eventually get girls home from bars, you must talk to at least 3 women each night you go out. My best opening lines have been the ones I spat out when I approached an attractive woman and my mind went blank.
At that point, whatever came out was spontaneous, genuine and true. Those are the best lines.How to Get Laid At A Bar In About 15 Minutes
Alternatively, you can use direct lines like: Be Aware Most guys that go to bars are absolutely unaware of multiple openings for them to approach and even more oblivious to women who are obvious targets. When I go to bars there are two types of women I look for mainly.
The first are women who are doing shots and the second are women who are looking around. Women doing shots are only doing it for one reason; they want to get uninhibited as soon as possible because its a special night. Women who have their head on swivel are the second types of women I keep my eyes peeled for.
Women in bars are usually in groups.
Some might be interested in hooking up, but thanks to most guys lacking the courage to approach, a lot of women get impatient and begin to search for guys to make eye contact with to expedite the hooking up process. Make solid eye contact and approach, knowing that the chances of making a connection with this girl are very high. So many guys walk around the bar without realizing that there are women who are specifically interested in your physical appearance.
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She may be attracted to your race, your looks, your hairstyle or your body type. Watch the Clock Always make an effort to arrive at a bar or nightclub as early as possible. If the bar opens at 9PM, try and be there at Arriving early at the club allows you to avoid the lines and gives you access to the women who already are at the club without the barrier of competition. The rule of thumb is: When in the club, realize that you have a specific purpose — to get laid.
As time goes on, the bar will fill up with men. Drunk men fueled by liquid courage who will become your competition. Most women would have paired off with the guy who they will be having sex with that night and the rest will be most likely unattractive or no planning on leaving with anyone. If logistics pan out, I usually spend the rest of the night with her and leave with her at the end of the night.
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Find a woman who is ready to go, and whose logistics pan out, then stick with her till the end end of the night or till you can leave the club with her.
Be Happy As I stated earlier, mindset is key. Ever been at the bar with your group of guys, swapping stories and having a good time ignoring girls and suddenly realize that there are a suddenly a bunch of women close to you? Be fun and loud at the bar. Women gravitate towards men who seem to be having a great time, they want to be a part of it. Those who want to be approached will give openings to guys and they are more likely to make openings available to men who are having a great time.
Give yourself no more than 3 seconds to get up, walk over, and approach her. We do it when nervous as a defense mechanism and women sub-consciously pick up on that. Always keep your drink low and to your side, it demonstrates open body language and an inviting attitude. After she breaks eye contact, walk over to her and introduce yourself.
Constant leaning in is awkward, frustrates her trying to hear you, and kills the vibe. Instead, project your voice further or move to her side. Standing shoulder to shoulder is a great way to hear each other better and get a more intimate feel. Never ignore her friends Have you ever hit it off with a girl at the bar only to have her friends drag her away moments later?
Introduce yourself to her friends male and female and interact with them — get them laughing and enjoying you being there.
After a couple of minutes, you can face her more direct and have a one-on-one conversation. Invite her to grab a drink at the bar, take a seat, or move to a place a little more quiet. Lead the way and start building that connection.